Tuesday, February 16, 2010

A Survivors’Tale by Linda Wells



My name is Linda Wells, I am a brain injury survivor & this is my story. In 1993 my husband & I were in Catalina Island to celebrate a new years eve. Of witch I did did not make it on DEC 30 Rex (my husband) & myself were riding in a golf cart with 2 otters, we were sitting in the back, going up a street the driver drove Grover & threw me off the golf cart, I rolled down the street hit my head.
The ambulance came took me to the hospital in Catalina I had a bump on my head, was unconscious for just a little bit. The doctors said I had a conscious. To take me tour friends home watch me. Well within 1 hour I could no talk, walk, and my right side of my body was like paralyzed my face drop down.
My husband took me back to the E.R. They air watched me off the island to long beach memorial hospital. They did a cat scan on my brain. I had a bleed in my brain the size of lemon.
The doctor told my family that I would probably never be able to process information told to me think & speak to response back. More or less like a vegetable. Oh my, how did my family deel with this one. Me I was not knowing anything. They asked me my name. I knew in my head I was Linda but win I wrote it would be 1100222, no I know that does not say “Linda”. I had a long long journey ahead of me!!!!
I hard my first seizure only 1, of 100’s to come. Grand MAL, Petite & Focal. They started therapy rite away. Then I was moved St. Johns Rehab in Oxard, then solutions in Sant a Barbar then back to St. Johns. Then home!!!!! I had 5 years of therapy, speech, physical. It was so so so hard….. I never wanted to lose my husband, I wanted to be the best I could be. I worked very hard always , lots of confusment, your friends leave you because you are now notthe person you once were.
The new world is hard hard hard….
I have trouble with nose, vision, groups, no music, can’t read books, can’t drive, my thinks & words my not always work or make cents. Spelling oh that you can see in this letter – I do my best… I lost ability of money, but I know how to give a credit card. Concentration, comprehending, well. We go throw 5 steps: denial, sadness, anger, bargaining & finally acceptance!!!
Well I do like myself most of the time!!!! You must work, hard, try to stay positive & you can do more than the Dr’s tell you can do, I have learned my new world.
I do like being with my brain injury friends….they so get it.

19 comments:

  1. Linda,
    I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes. I can see you saying these words and I just want to hug you. I know how you feel cause I'm right there with you. I think we both have done fabulously.
    Your true friend, Lee

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  2. I ROTE A LONG COMENT WERE IS IT????

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  3. Hi this is Linda,

    Well tonite anoter first. i went to a cocktail prty with my hubin, (he gofls alot & I hav never meet any of the cupels) nice pepol i was nervus everyone so nice, then we went to Las Posas country club, oh boy no rex i cant, then i decided to try & to go for my hubin Rex, he was so hapy . I did it i went to diner with many pepol I not know any & it was loud & busy .... but i had fun i wore my ear plugs & had alot of fun!!! yeah go LINDA

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  4. Hi Linda. This is a wonderful blog. Thank you for sharing your story.

    Love,
    Brianne

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  5. Linda, for those of us who know you, we are amazed every day with your wonderful caring and loving grace. You are an inspiration to EVERYONE you meet. Not everyone could go through something like this then have the nerve to carry on in life the way you do. You are a fabulous inspiration to all of us. (I do love the part about you don't know money but can whip out those credit cards with no problem. You go girl! Love,Dotti

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  6. I EVERYONE THIS IS ME, LINDA,

    TODAY I WENT WITH MY HUBIN ON THE GOFL CART AT THE CLUB, TO RIDE 9 HOLES & WATCH HIM. MY REX HAS BEEN WANTING ME TO RIDE TO SEE THE CUORSE, OH MY SO PRETY!! I HIT A FEW BALLS IT WAS FUN, IT MADE REX HAPY THAT I DID THIS, HE HAD A WIFE WITH HIM OF CUORSE I CANT DRIVE SO I CULD NOT FOLLOW HIM TO MAKE IT EASYER FOR HIM, I IT IS HARD FOR ME ITS LOOK DOWN THEN WIN HE STOPED I CAN LOOK AT THE BUTIFUL HOMES, YARDS, & CUORSE... SO IT WAS MORE WORK FOR REX BUT HE LIKED HAVING ME WITH HIM.... HE IS SO SWET!! WE ATE AT THE CLUB SO I GLAD I DID THIS!!!

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  7. hi everyone, this is me....

    I HAD MARI yestrday... we had a good day. picked up some art. i was in a good mood all day got all my erands done. yeah!!!

    I want to do some more speking, ilove to spek to gruops to make a diference.

    i hav a frend that is going thru tuff new life, hubin had a masive stroke, he is improvng & i know all the frustration yuor life yuo knew is no longer. they both ar very stong i pray for them. he will get beter. One foot in front of the oter......

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  8. Hi Frends,

    I so want to get some followers, I started this blog, to be ther for oters & to help. Win yuo hav a acident & yuo hav many stugells yuo want to hav someone thats gets it. anyone hav idea for me pls help.

    thks Linda

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